
A Patient’s Story Worth Sharing
Today, I want to share a story that has stayed with me—a story about one of my teenage patients who faced overwhelming challenges after getting Lyme disease. His journey isn’t just about physical illness; it’s about resilience, emotional pain, and the life-changing power of support.
Already Struggling—Before Lyme
Even before he got sick, this young man was already facing difficulties. Like many teens, he was navigating the emotional rollercoaster of adolescence, working hard to build confidence and find his place in the world. He was quiet, kind, and sensitive—and like many kids his age, still trying to figure out who he was.
Then, Lyme disease entered the picture—and everything changed.
When Lyme Disease Hits a Young Life
His illness didn’t look dramatic at first. But over time, symptoms crept in: mental fog, extreme fatigue, mood swings, and something that baffled both him and his family—Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS). He became dizzy just standing up. His heart raced for no reason. He couldn’t focus in class. Homework that once took 30 minutes now took two hours, if it got done at all.
He was too tired to hang out with friends. He withdrew from sports and after-school activities. His personality seemed to shift—less laughter, more frustration. He wasn’t being “difficult.” He was sick, and the disease was taking a toll on both his body and his mind.
The Pain of Feeling Abandoned
As his symptoms grew worse, his world grew smaller. The most painful moment came when a close friend—someone he trusted—began to drift away. Eventually, the friend stopped reaching out altogether.
The sense of abandonment hit hard. He already felt misunderstood, scared, and different. Now, he felt alone.
Teens rely heavily on their social circles. Friendships are lifelines. When that support disappeared, the emotional blow was just as devastating as the physical ones.
The Mental Health Impact of Lyme Disease
Lyme disease doesn’t just cause fatigue or joint pain. It affects the nervous system, mood regulation, and even cognition. For this patient, it triggered anxiety, depression, and a deep sense of isolation.
What’s worse, those emotional symptoms are often misunderstood or dismissed—especially in teenagers. People may assume they’re just being moody or dramatic. But in reality, this disease was disrupting his brain and body on a fundamental level.
What Is POTS?
Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS) is a condition that affects blood flow and is often seen in patients with Lyme disease and other chronic illnesses. It causes a range of symptoms when a person moves from lying down to standing up, including:
• Lightheadedness
• Rapid heartbeat
• Fatigue
• Brain fog
• Nausea
• Feeling faint or dizzy
It’s an invisible yet life-altering condition that makes even small daily tasks feel monumental.
Why Support Matters
This young man’s story is one of thousands. What makes the biggest difference in cases like his? Support. Compassion. A listening ear. A belief that what he’s feeling is real—even when it’s invisible to others.
Family members, friends, educators, and healthcare providers all play a role. Just being present, showing up, and believing a patient’s experience can help restore a sense of hope and trust.
The Good News: He Got His Life Back
With the right treatment, time, and support, this young man is doing so much better now. His fatigue, brain fog, and mood changes have improved. His POTS symptoms are under control, and he’s regained the ability to attend school, keep up with his assignments, and enjoy life again.
He’s laughing more, making new friends, and rediscovering the things that bring him joy. His energy is back. His focus is sharper. Emotionally, he feels more like himself again. He has his life back—and most importantly, he knows now that he’s not alone.
Let’s Raise Awareness—Together
Lyme disease is complex. It affects more than just the body. It reaches into a person’s sense of identity, relationships, and emotional well-being—especially for teens who are still figuring out who they are.
Let’s talk more openly about the emotional impact of chronic illness, especially in young people. Let’s support better education, earlier diagnosis, and compassionate care.
If You Know Someone Who’s Struggling…
Reach out. Don’t assume they’re “just tired” or “being dramatic.” Whether it’s Lyme disease, POTS, or any other chronic illness—your call, message, or kind word could be the turning point in someone’s day.
Small acts of compassion matter. And sometimes, they make all the difference.
Been living that scenario for 60 years as a 13 generation Cape Codder. This area has been in denial for 100 years!
I am sure it seems like forever
I have been living with Lyme for 17 years! My body is a mess and had so many surgeries due to this disease! I lost my career over time, friends and family didn’t understand and I shared as much info as possible! I am Massachusetts born and bred living in Fall River! I agree how much this area has the WORST types of “Specialists” who barely acknowledge this disease! It’s life altering. I’m 47 years old and still have many flare ups with Lyme rash! We need more acknowledgement of this Disease as well as caring Drs who will acknowledge it! Much luck to you fellow Lyme Warrior 💚